We just had a quarrel and then he stated you can find males in the police that are into the wardrobe and select to take action. It was said by him’s easier for the guys to disguise their sex than females in the force. Is he offering me signals? Have always been We being paranoid? – “A Sista Desires To Know”
Dear “A Sista Desires To Know, ”
WOW! Ms. Honey, my goal is to physically arrived at north park myself and knock some feeling to your mind. After all actually. You’ve been dating a guy whom lives an additional town for the last a decade in which he hasn’t expected one to marry him? Actually, woman.
My goal is to get back to this 1, so let’s target if he’s giving you signals about his sex and in case you have got a directly to be paranoid.
Okay, wait one minute. Pause. I’m still bugging. He’s into the Bay area and you’re in hillcrest. 10 years of dating with no wedding? WOMAN.
I’ve recollected myself once more. Now, he’s fully mindful of down low gents and ladies because he works together them regarding the police. He’s told you about them. He also went in terms of to offer a conclusion of why it is easier for males to disguise their sex than females. He’s clearly been speaking about the topic with a few of their authorities pals, or feasible certainly one of their down low police brethren. That does not make him homosexual. He probably was interested to find there were undercover gay policemen and he had been dealing with them.
As he visits you and inquires about Hillcrest, the mainly gay community, given that does raise a banner.
As he visits you and inquires about Hillcrest, the mostly homosexual community, given that does raise a banner. What is he inquiring about? But, the actual fact he didn’t know it represented someone who was gay that he had on a bracelet with the gay rainbow colors and a short necklace, and. I ain’t buying that reason. He’s a officer. I know he has knowledge or happens to be taught to observe individuals, actions, and symbols, particularly the colors that represent the homosexual rainbow, and then he is through the Bay area. Naw, that is not traveling by.
But, i wish to share one thing you with women. Some guys, in privacy, at once or any other, have actually pulled their “Johnsons” between their feet to see just what it seems like. I’ve seen men get it done playfully when you look at the locker space. Did i do believe these were homosexual? No, maybe perhaps not at all. It is for gags. I believe some guys have fascination that is particular know very well what it might appear to be if it had been not here. Simply if they had a penis like I think women fanaticize.
Nonetheless, woman, i actually do think he’s got homosexual tendencies and is homosexual interested.
Nevertheless, woman, i actually do think he has got tendencies that are gay is homosexual wondering. Specially after the reality whenever you questioned him and then he flipped away. Then he wouldn’t get that upset and stop speaking with you if he’s not gay. I do believe you hit a sore spot as I think some men secretly do with him because he may secretly find the gay life fascinating. We mean think about it, our company is fabulous. We’ve enjoyable therefore we do not have issue expressing ourselves. Does it mean their fascination makes him homosexual? No. Does which make him suspect? No. He does items that would make one suspect him to be homosexual, but we gather he could be right.
But, Ms. A-Sista-Wants-To-Know, i’m going back again to the known reality he could be another town and also you’ve been dating a decade. Woman, get a move and grip on. He could be maybe maybe perhaps not likely to marry you. Why should he? He is getting every thing he desires away from you without having the name or paper. I would personallyn’t be amazed if he has got an other woman into the Bay area as he is certainly not to you in north park. Move ahead, honey. We don’t understand women who hold on to a person since you are hopeful for starters time, or he might, or he’ll alter. WOMAN, Poof! Disappear. – Directly, From Your Own Gay Closest Friend!